- C’mon people. Forget about how you may personally feel about homosexuality. Consider instead that letting a huge group of people get married – people who really really want to be able to marry someone – isn’t going to hurt marriage any more than heterosexual people hurt marriage. In fact, given their enthusiasm for marriage, it might just be possible that letting homosexuals marry will lower the divorce rate in this country. If you want to talk about the sanctity and the integrity of marriage, that’s what needs to be fixed. Straights aren’t doing all that well at it, you gotta admit.